On the NY subway system TONIGHT, I watched an African American man use the "N" word with his African American friend about 100 times, in full view where everyone could hear. Because they were both African American, does that make it right? We took on the "N" word tonight on TV with the Rev. Floyd Flake. Here is the segment. Tomorrow afternoon, I'm speaking to a large crowd, including about 50 High School Scholarship Winners and college students. I think it's a safe bet no one in that crowd will use the word ONCE.